Guest Post – It’s All About YOU
As humans we despise being wrong. Instead of accepting consequences for our actions, most of us are quick to place blame on someone else.
“It was his idea”
“She persuaded me”
“I didn’t know”
Bishop T.D Jakes preached a message titled, “The Blame Game.” The message was on point and spoke to each and every one of us. None of us is exempt from blaming others at one point or another in our lives.
When do we accept responsibility for ourselves?
We blame our childhood, our parents, our spouses and even our children for not being where we “should” be in life.
It’ All About YOU
When we grow up and realize that we control our today and our tomorrow, our excuses will shift from others to the man (or girl) in the mirror. It’s tough to do a self-examination and come face to face with your very own issues. Although it may be tough, it is necessary for growth.
This year make it your business to look within and right the wrongs that have surfaced over the years. This will be a process and it will not happen overnight. If it’s holding you back, fix it.
Once this is done, begin to develop you. It’s all about you this year. Not to be arrogant or vain but if you don’t fix yourself, you will be no good to others, let alone yourself. Be selfish and start with you.
If you need counseling, swallow your pride and get some counseling. Do it for you.
It’s all about YOU!
Motivational Speaker, Minister, Workshop Leader, Radio Host, and Author, Nicole Cleveland lives her life on purpose. Her mission is to ensure that women are not suffering in silence, as she once was. People are on the verge of giving up all over this world. They are waiting for someone to stand up and say, “I have been where you are … but this is how I made it.” Visit her online at http://nicoleconline.com/. She is also the founder of http://breatheagainmagazine.org/
